I have been hosting a book club for the last five years, firstly at The Saint Lambert Library and, since 2022, at Maison Desaulniers, the home of the Saint Lambert Council for Seniors. While not a strict necessity for everyone, book clubs can offer valuable social and intellectual benefits.
As in most book clubs, we meet once a month and the meetings last between two and three hours. In the past, I have met some people who have dropped out of their book clubs because the host or maybe the librarian was the only one to choose the books which I find is hardly fair. Everyone has a say in our club when choosing the book and we find it easier not to pick recent publications. There is no problem if you choose to purchase the hard copy of the book, however, if you wish to reserve it at the library, you will be put on a waiting list depending on the number of copies they have. There is also the possibility of other websites you can use such as La Bibliothèque Nationale. Used books at good prices can be bought at Abebooks.com We have found that instead of choosing one particular book, we could choose a theme such as a biography and everyone read their choice. We also chose to read short stories one month which everyone enjoyed. Inviting an author to your meeting is a great idea if possible.
I have found in my research nine rules for success:
- RSVP to confirm your presence
- Arrive on Time
- Read the book
- Come prepared
- Speak up
- Listen to others
- Be honest
- Be respectful
- In particular, have fun
There is always room for a good argument and sometimes, heated discussions, however, demeaning, discriminatory or harassing behaviour and speech are definitely not welcome. One of the most important steps in establishing a club is identifying people who are already passionate readers.
In conclusion, Book Clubs can be a fantastic way to cultivate friendships by providing a shared interest and platform for social interaction leading to deeper connections and lasting friendships. I know that I would not have necessarily met some of the members if not for our book club.
Books + Friendship = Book Club Kristin Hannah
What happens at Book Club stays at Book Club. Indio Wolf
Happiness is spending time with my friends at the Book Club. Judith Turcotte